(This is the third part of my Money Principles from the Mennonites. Yesterday I covered Don’t buy anything you don’t need.)
Mennonites are masters of this – or at least the Mennonites that I grew up with are. The Mennonites I know will learn how to do just about anything in order to avoid having to pay someone else to do it. They’re cheap as hell, to tell you the truth. And so am I.
As I mentioned in my first post, my husband’s parents dug their own basement. They started with two shovels. They lifted the house up on wooden stilts. They don’t have a lick of training in construction. They don’t even have high school diplomas. In fact, they wouldn’t even be able to write out a list of the materials they would need to execute this task. But they now have three bedrooms, a bathroom and a laundry room down there – fully finished, with electricity and plumbing and carpets and the whole deal. As far as I know, the only help they got in building it was from their equally-untrained brothers. Other Mennonites might be impressed with the feat, but they wouldn’t balk at it. Everyone I know does that kind of thing.
My parents are no different, and Ben and I have inherited our parents’ aversion to hiring others. In the last two years that we’ve owned this house, Ben has completely renovated five of the rooms, doing all the electrical and plumbing work himself. His only training comes from his dad.
We just can’t bring ourselves to pay other people to do things we could do ourselves. More than anything, we’re just plain cheap.
So this is Mennonite Money Principle #2: Do the work yourself. Instead of buying finished products, relying on machines, or hiring others, make it yourself. Grow it yourself. Cook it yourself. Assemble it yourself.
The great thing about doing the work yourself is that, besides saving money, there are so many other benefits.
- The unparalleled sense of satisfaction you feel when you complete a job yourself. You know what I’m talking about. That sense of pride as you step back after putting on the last coat of paint and survey your work. The deep pleasure of digging into a delicious pot of soup you cooked up yourself. I did this, you think. My husband and I live for that feeling.
- The health benefits. When you grow your own fruits and vegetables, you get access to the freshest, healthiest food available. When you cook from scratch you skip all the preservatives and processing that come in a package, right to wholesome goodness. When you hang up your own laundry and mow your own lawn and shovel your own driveway you get a natural, full-body workout that you can’t get at the gym. And I really hate the gym.
- The positive impact on the environment. The less you rely on machines to dry your clothes, take you places and entertain you, the less you pollute the environment. The fewer products you buy from the store, the less stuff has to be shipped in from all over the world. I’m all for that.
- The bonding time you get with your spouse when you do stuff together. I love painting a room while Ben lays down the floor tiles nearby. I love shoveling dirt onto our garden together, or bringing tools up the ladder to him while he nails shingles onto the roof. Some of my favourite moments are working on projects together with my husband. They’re so great.
- And lastly, of course, you save soooo much money. You can spend less on clothes by sewing. You can spend less on home décor by creating your own artwork. You can spend less on your grocery bill by baking your own bread, soaking and cooking your own beans, and slicing your own steaks. And you can spend less on a gym membership by getting exercise the natural way – by working.
Of course, it’s not always as simple as I’ve made it out to be. For a lot of these things you need access to a certain amount of resources – like time and space. You can’t do much gardening, canning, freezing, and buying in bulk, for instance, if you live in a small apartment. You can’t always cook full meals if you work full-time and have three kids. I certainly don’t blame anyone who isn’t able to do all of these things.
And not everyone is good at everything. Not everyone can paint a landscape for their living room wall or install a toilet themselves. I acknowledge that. But I do think we can all do a lot more than we often realize.
Regardless, it’s what my husband and I strive for. We aim for a lifestyle that allows for more and more freedom to do things ourselves and less and less dependence on others to do it for us.
You may notice that with such a lifestyle there’s not much room for stuff like watching TV or playing video games. Good. Both of those things, as I mentioned in my last post, suck up money. You can cancel your satellite subscription and sell your PS3. That’s even more cash in your pocket.
You may also notice that with all this stuff, you don’t have as much time to do paid work. Again, Good. In my experience, most paid work is generally repetitive and unfulfilling. Our motto is to keep paid work to a minimum and spend more time on the unpaid, satisfying, money-saving work. Even if it means being poorer than most people. But that’s just us.
Before I sign off I want to leave you with this quote from Robert A. Heinlein for inspiration:
“A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects.”
I personally believe this. Do you? What are your thoughts?
What kinds of things do you do yourself to save money?





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I love taking on new tasks, especially if it means learning new skills. I built the dining table I’m currently sitting at. It could use a few polishing touches, but it does just fine. And the next one I build (when we move to a larger place) will be better for my practice.
I hate living in the city, where I can’t change the oil on my car, which I’ve always done.
I fix my bicycles, make much of my camping gear, and generally try to do as much as possible for myself.
My wife and I have been in the process of putting this into practice. For us, it’s started in the kitchen. She was a big fan of convenience foods and the like before I came along. We’re almost at the point of eating out only for special occasions which means I, the cook, get to cook more.
Another big one is computer maintenance. My wife’s laptop recently took a bit of a spill and the power jack got messed up. So she found a video showing her where the necessary parts were on the inside and she took her computer apart, fixed the jack, put it back together, and only had 3 screws left over!
For as long as I can remember, I’ve tried to learn how to do things myself rather than paying to have someone else do them. It’s just immensely satisfying to know that I don’t have to pay someone else to fix or make something when I can do it with a quick Google or with just tinkering around.
My family is in the middle of a do-it-yourself remodeling project and I appreciate so much what you are saying. Although I’m sure you know that hanging drywall and keeping a happy marriage may take some work! Your article made me think about time. Our grandparents and great grandparents had the same amount of hours in a day that we do, so why does our generation think they are the ones with no time?
Good gracious, I feel like a lazy princess! haha that quote scared the bejezus out of me.
I guess it can be a little overwhelming . . . the main point that I take from it is that humans should be able to excel at lots of things, rather than merely specializing in one thing. I think the author is trying to say that human beings are special because of our capacity to learn such a variety of behaviours. We don’t all necessarily need to know how to set a bone and plan an invasion!
I agree, it’s much better to do things yourself. We do almost everthing by ourselves, except when it comes to car stuff. We are not talented like that!
I have to tell you: you inspired me. Last weekend, I knuckled down and started working on our yard. Today, I posted pictures of the raised garden bed construction. And there’s so much more to do! I’ve avoided buying new materials by repurposing resources we already had in the yard and we’ve done a lot of labor this week. Gary even learned how to change brakes!
Awesome! Way to go! And thanks for sharing!!
“You can’t do much gardening, canning, freezing, and buying in bulk, for instance, if you live in a small apartment.”
Just wanted to say that these things can be very possible while living in a small apartment. Currently I am living in an apartment, but I still garden. I have a fairly large garden set up at my parent’s house, which I tend to. I also know people living in apartments in the city who participate in community gardens and I’ve seen churches who set up garden plots on the property for members. I also do tons and tons of canning and I love buying food in bulk. I have always been able to find space for these things, you just have to be creative. But yes, living in a small apartment can make these things a little tricker but they are not impossible. If you live in an apartment and want to do these things, don’t despair, these things are possible.