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Random Glimpses

Meet the Husband

June 30, 2010

I don’t talk about my husband enough. I know this because I’ve had male colleagues hit on me after months of being acquainted because they still weren’t aware that I was married. I’m trying to work on that. Obviously you all know that I’m married, but many of you don’t know a thing about the [...]

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Rock Star Skirt

May 10, 2010

Conversation at the end of the day: Ben: Why do you still wear that skirt? Kathleen: This skirt? Um, because it’s amazing and makes me look totally rad. Ben: [Sighing] You’re a very pretty girl. But sometimes I don’t understand why you wear the clothes that you do. Kathleen: What? This is a rock star [...]

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The Walk

April 26, 2010

After my last post, I wanted to share this more positive story. This is how Ben usually handles my suffering: This morning when my husband found me sobbing over my computer desk, he invited me to join him on a walk through the rain. I had complained earlier that just last night I had committed [...]

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Winter Wonderland Adventure

February 27, 2010

Update: Right after I posted that last post about not being that awesome, Ben invited me to join him on a winter wonderland adventure. We put on tons of layers and then trekked through the snow behind out property’s treeline, following woodchuck footprints to find their burrows. We followed them along the old railway, identifying [...]

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Midnight Ear Wax Adventures

January 30, 2010

Warning: the following post contains ear wax. If that makes you squeamish . . . you need to toughen up. “Ben, my left ear stinks.” “What?” “My left ear stinks. I need you to take a look at it.” “How in the world are you smelling your own ear?” “When I poke my finger in [...]

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Of Couches and Christmas Trees. Or, My Husband's Stupid Mouth

January 9, 2010

I’m taking a break from my somber “What’s the Point of Marriage?” series to bring you a stupid and rather pointless story. It is also a scandalous story. So, siblings, parents, or other easily-scandalized friends: you may want to redirect your browsers away from this page rather than reading on at this point. If you [...]

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Pipe Lessons: The Unexpected Nature of Marriage

December 14, 2009

Ben teaches me how to smoke a pipe and I meditate on the nature of marriage.

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Random Insights from my Journal

November 10, 2009

I recently went through my journals from when I first started dating Ben.  I have kept a journal basically ever since I could write, and they provide a lot of entertainment.  But this time I was specifically looking for insights for this blog. While reading through my journals, I also spent some time reflecting on [...]

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A Good Morning

October 6, 2009

I wrote this Sunday morning but didn’t get around to typing and posting it until today. I just had the best wake-up ever. Normally, this is how my mornings go: I begin to surface into consciousness about half an hour after the alarm radio has started playing.  As I continue to flounder into some semblance [...]

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Underwear.

September 30, 2009

Loads of Ben’s underwear show up magically in the wash, and I catch Ben in a very odd predicament.

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